So here's the breakdown on why sometimes, I have to cut certain people out of my life whether temporarily or for good:
Gossip kills 3 people:
- The speaker
- The spoken of
- The listener
I guess you can say this is a part 2 of yesterday's post. It all relates. There are a few things that I'm totally committed to: I don't go to places I'm not welcomed and I don't tolerate bad mouthing mutual friends. I've stated this many times on this blog. If you see me gazing off into space while you're going on and on about whomever - you'll need to know I'm tuning you out. I've also noticed that people who are 'bad mouthing' their friends are also the ones who have done the same thing or similar to - total hypocrisy. I have no respect for people like that. None whatsoever.
So as of now, I'm going through a little adjustment period, shifting and weeding out some of the bad eggs in my life. Maybe it means I just need a break from "you" or maybe it means, you won't be seeing me ever again. But the one thing you can count on is, I have zero tolerance for disrespectful and insecure people in my life. I can't do it. Life is so short to be in the company of insincere and disloyal people. Again, like I said, I only have a handful of people I trust, respect and want in my life. And that's okay with me because I'd rather be alone than be with someone who'll stab me in the back later on down the road.
“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt
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