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Just a Different Life

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In all honesty, I live my life by viewing how other people live. It’s not by doing what everybody else does, in fact it’s the total opposite. It’s simply looking at people’s lives, and noticing the many regrets that they now have. For instance, Mad and I entertained the idea of having a child of our own. Oddly enough, we kept bumping into people who have “child bearer’s remorse”. They would literally say, “I’m so sorry we had kids ‘cause we can’t go out, we can’t do this and we can’t have time to ourselves”, and then of course, you have the happy ones, which was always hopeful to see. With all of these people complaining about their decision in life of having kids, and noticing other people’s lives who had children who were miserable, I’m glad we didn’t make the choice to have kids. I get a lot of, “I miss my old life”, but I think, what about your life with your children who love you and look up to you? There are so many unhappy parents out there, and thankfully, there are some happ...